Here are some tips if you are trying to lose weight. They are not earthshaking, but the challenge is just to do it.
- Visualize yourself as you want to BE
There are many books written on the subject of the mind-body connection. There is little doubt that this has a physical effect. One of the most easiest techniques available is that we change ourselves through visualization: in our minds eye we create exactly how we seek to be. Planting a mental image firmly in the theatre of our mind adds power to your ability to follow through with
dietary boundaries, exercise programs and other facets of a healthy
lifestyle that will, in time, translate into physical results. This vision seldom fades and almost never disappears.
- Write down your vision and physical goals
You probably know that everyone has a different learning style. Some
learn by hearing, others by seeing and still others by touching:
auditory, visual and tactile. So, doesn’t it make sense that when you
want to teach yourself a new skill (such as becoming healthy and fit)
that you might also engage in the three learning styles…just to make
sure you have the goals fully ingrained. So, after you have a vision,
work out a time frame and actions that will lead to the accomplishment
of your goals. Realism is important at this point. Heroics or demanding
super-human physical feats of yourself will not serve you well. Steady
goes the course. The most important action will be your own consistency!
Writing it all down helps you to remember what you told yourself you
wanted to do and also over what time frame. You might make a chart…some
even attach rewards to completion of actions…not results. Just as in
elementary school when you received awards for attendance, not
performance. Resist the temptation to grade yourself. Reward yourself
for taking the right actions…the results will come.
- Have an accountability partner
When you tell someone you will do something, you probably do it.
However, when you tell yourself you will do something, you can probably
figure out dozens of “reasons” or “excuses” of why it did not happen.
For most people this paradox is just an example of human nature.
Suggestion: don’t fight it. Just take another tact: TELL SOMEONE what
you are going to do and ask them to help you be accountable. My greatest counselling successes have been with people who have been willing to be
accountable to me on a daily basis. The accountability we practices was a
simple 3-5 minute phone call. The agenda was simple: did you do what
you said you were going to do; how do you feel and what are your plans
for tomorrow…that’s it. Nothing complicated or esoteric. My role is to
help someone be accountable to themselves.
- Today counts
How good is your “remember-er?” How fast is your “forget-er”? Many
people would say that they forget about 10 times as fast as they
remember. I suggest you keep it simple and focus on the day at hand. As
you make each day a success, the excitement will grow, the resolve with
get stronger and you will have results. Resist, if you will, the
possibility of not succeeding as you do your best each day.
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